|I'm a / We're a...:
||Some Action, Casual Dating, Long-term Relationship
||Baldest, I Intentionally shave my head
Man or Woman or Trans man or Trans woman or Genderqueer or Gender non-conformist or Non-binary person or Couple or Group for Dating
Man or Woman for Friendship
||Protestant (Recovering Catholic)
||Democrat, Liberal, Moderate, Kinky
||Wouldn't you like to know
||Prefers no kids - case-by-case if you do
|I get around town via: Bus, Walk, Uber and Lyft are my bitches
|My dietary preferences are: Indiscriminant Omnivore
|I spend my free time: Reading, Sex, Creating, Drinking, Watching movies, Dining out, Sleeping, Working, Thinking of all those pretty, little, dirty thoughts
Experienced Maso for Experienced Sadist
Introverted submissive masochist looking for her extroverted Dominant Sadist.
I'm a local (biological female, non-binary) submissive masochist looking for a local Dominant Sadist looking for total power exchange, sadomasochism, and companionship! I have been in the scene for fifteen years, and pain is my love language. I hope to find someone who is as experienced as I am or someone who has a mix of experience and great self-confidence.
Please no younger men - if you are not 33 or older we will not work out well.
I am an adventurous, kink-spirited, submissive masochist who has been published on the national platform about kink and poly issues. I am also a "young professional" who works a full-time job, takes grad school classes, has never been married, and has no children. I am a creative, innovative spirit who has an adventurous side and tries everything at least once. I have eclectic tastes that start at loving classic movies (think Turner Classic Movies), new independent movies at The Roxy, weird and interesting history, scouring amazon kindle book deals (unapologetically), and travel both local and long-distance. I also like cooking, good wines and good microbrews, giving a massage, and has a twisted sense of humor.
I am looking for someone local and wanting to have a total power exchange. I prefer older men, or older women, or a Dominant Couple. I have an alpha personality out in the real world, and in personal relationships, I look for a way to let loose and be my servant self. I am non-monogamous and will most likely not change any time soon. I'm ready to get back on the dating field and find that right Dominant as well as the right fit.
Is dating dead? I am hoping not, and although I love relationships, I am also looking for a person who likes going out on an occasional date night. I have been known to treat my person well with a nice drink date when bars are open.
There were a few questions that were a toss-up with "In and Out." I hate it that they don't let you pick both:
I am both a Steak and Sushi Person
I am both a Cat and Dog Person
People always tell me I'm... Pretty intense and come off as intense. I am also told that my profile has caught their eye, they don't have the experience, but am I willing on helping them. I am hoping to find someone who will let me be myself, who can help me grow and develop, and who is at the same level that I am at.
If you fall into that category and wondering if you are the right person for me send me a message. I don't bite (without permission) and I'm always happy to chat just to "test the waters". What will one little bite of an apple do?
Might as well face it, I'm addicted to... Pain, Power Exchange and Control, Dominant personalities, and cuddles with the right person. I have a yes, no, maybe list and yours gets mine.
Three things that I want from my ideal mate are... 1. A dark, witty, sense of humor
2. Someone who understands the needs of control, power and energy, and sadomasochism.
3. Attraction to the weird, odd, awe, and interesting.
What is the one thing that you love that everybody else hates? Church.
It's karaoke night and I'm singing... Show tunes or the song that most represents how I am feeling or my latest challenge in life.
I would describe my fashion sense as... Androgynous, tomboy, and often masculine presenting. I own dresses and skirts and know how to wear them. I am biologically female but identify as genderfluid.
I consider myself an open-minded person, but my deal breakers are patchouli and dreadlocks yo!
On a Saturday night you will most likely find me watching a good movie and drinking smooth red wine. Perhaps a sound (consensual) beating and hot passionate sex. I like a mix of both.
I couldn't live without Inequality in my personal relationships, coffee, pain and pleasure, mindfuckings, and really sadistic snuggles. Did I mention coffee? Caffeine is essential here too.
The first section I turn to in Seven Days is Ask the Reverend
My ideal partner would be in the 32 to 99 age range.
The quickest way to my heart is being a Dominant or Sadist. The quickest way to my bed is showing me your toy bag. And in the morning, I like my eggs cooked not by you. I'll be doing the cooking and by the way I make my own homemade breads, muffins, and a mean omelette. Coffee freshly grinded if you prefer.
Cow's milk or Soy milk
Microbrew or Bud
Steak or Sushi
Murphy's Law or Karma
Yankees or Red Sox
Dinner and a movie or Pizza and a rental
Cat or Dog
Black or Cream & sugar
Get mad or Get even
PC or MAC
Fox News or The Daily Show
Theater or Night Club
Morning Bird or Night Owl