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I'm a / We're a...:
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Woman
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Current Status:
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Single
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Looking for:
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Friends, Long-term Relationship
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Body Type:
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Slender
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Eyes:
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Hazel
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Height:
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5' 06"
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Hair Type:
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auburn greying
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Age:
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56
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Seeks:
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Woman or Trans man or Trans woman for Dating

Woman or Trans man or Trans woman for Friendship

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Education:
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Post-graduate, Doctorate
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Ethnicity:
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Caucasian
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Religion:
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Spiritual, not religious
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Political Leanings:
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Democrat, Independent, Liberal
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City:
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RICHFORD
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Have Children:
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No
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Want Children:
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No
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Smoking:
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Never
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Drinking:
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Sometimes
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Drugs:
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Not interested
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I get around town via: Pick up truck
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I spend my free time: Reading, Creating, Hiking, Watching movies, Sleeping, Working, Building Snow Men, playing the cello
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Curious. Playful. Tender.
Looking for someone who can survive direct, honest but kind and respectful communication, dark humour, the occasional unsolicited fact about cold cases, animals, or why I’ve fallen into a research rabbit hole and may not return until Tuesday. I’m an animal lover, cello novice, true crime cold case detective, lover of winter, and believer in science, intuition, and the possibility that some things are just plain woo. My house includes five cats, an opinionated parrot, a bunny, a dog, and a level of pet glitter that has frankly stopped asking for permission. I’m not looking to sprint into romance. I’m looking for companionship, mutual curiosity, and something more if the connection earns its way there. I like kind, steady people who can communicate and repair like adults, and still be their own brand of quirky and interesting. I’m a homebody with bursts of outdoorsy-ness, but I need decompression time because my work is mentally taxing. I’m not looking for someone to judge that or a more home-body lifestyle. I like the outdoors, but I am not looking to prove my worth through constant activity. No smoking (anything), no drugs, infrequent social drinking only. Bonus points if you have healthy side gigs of your own and a strong friendship-family base.
Three things that I want from my ideal mate are... ... secure connection; emotional regulation; adult communication and staying with conflict rather than disappearing behind avoidant strategies
People always tell me I'm... ... infinitely patient, direct, kind, and understanding
Might as well face it, I'm addicted to... ... cats, but i own in relative moderation. gummy bears are a close second
What is the one thing that you love that everybody else hates? actually, it's the one thing that everyone seems to love but i hate - beets.
I would describe my fashion sense as... ... casual most of the time; semi-professional at work
On a Saturday night you will most likely find me mowing the grass after work
I consider myself an open-minded person, but my deal breakers are drug use/alcoholism and far right politics
I couldn't live without animals
The quickest way to my heart is kindness and respect The quickest way to my bed is trust and safety And in the morning, I like my eggs cooked i don't eat breakfast
My ideal partner would be in the 45 to 65 age range.
Cow's milk or Soy milk
Steak or Sushi
Microbrew or Bud
Murphy's Law or Karma
Dinner and a movie or Pizza and a rental
Cat or Dog
Black or Cream & sugar
Get mad or Get even
PC or MAC
Fox News or The Daily Show
Theater or Night Club
Morning Bird or Night Owl
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